That's it. IT'S OFFICIAL. I've given up on Sistas........

[robbboy2003]

Originally Posted by sekhmet

tit's a pity that you have given up on us so easily. but....then again, i don't know that a strong Black man would be so ready to give up on his women like that. so is it a pity afterall? i think not.

no one really twisted your arm to date Black women, you obviously see something in us more than other women to make you want to date us. so now that things are going wrong, you decide to high tail it outta here? fine. quitter.

you know, after all the bull ive had to put up with in dealing with Black men, i could NEVER give up on them. why? cause God broke the mold when he made yall. triflin as some of yall want to be at times, there is still a certain regalness hat each and everyone of you possess. the same goes for us Black women.

maybe you haven't met the right person. maybe you aren't where you should be in life. maybe you should just pray about it, and pray without ceasing.

whatever it is that you do, reflect upon your decision and do so without haste or anger or irrationality.

You have hit on my points exactly, maybe could be this young'un needs to be sent back,for a little more maturity or seasoning aah.

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by seminoleBACP

It seems to me that no in here has considered the possibility that his claim is legit. If this were a female talking about a male, this post would problaby be filled with posters justifing her. Through my college experience so far, it seems to me that black women have something wrong with them. They choose these "thugs" who did not even complete high or dropped out of college as a freshman (hehehe). I cannot stand to hear them say that there are no good men and that there is a man shortage. The value of both these statements is false! Black women need to make better decisions!

Pleazzze!

Young and/or immature sisters make the same mistakes that young and/or immature brothers make. Like we don't pick sistahs because of stupid of superficial reasons. I know I did in college and highschool.

Hell, when I was in college, if she was 'foine', that's all that mattered. I didn't care a lick about her personality, dreams, educational standing, etc...And guess what; I blew alot of good relationships because of it. Some of them really hurt me bad. But that gave me no excuse to denounce all my sistahs. None, whatsoever.

Stop the self-glorifying demonization of our sistahs and vice versa. We all have made immature decisions when it comes to relaitonships. What's important is how we learn from them and evolve. Using past disappointments as a means and excuse to rebuke and insult each other is well, IMHO.....immature and culturally devisive.

There's far too many brothers and sistahs out there for any of us to think we've captured a representative sample of what is really out there.

[robbboy2003]

Brotha, DBlack. Keep whipping 'em with common sense and knowledge. Well Said!