Secret Lover

[Zorro]

Originally Posted by MadameX

Zorro, those are some interesting questions that you presented to James. However, I am still curious about the positions( anally, orally) that are engaged in during these bi encounters.
Also, its interesting how you brought up the subject about desiring to be cuddled by the same sex. Certainly, if some continually has these desires and is involved in a hetero relationship then, I would say they were bi. But, if the individual is seeing the same sex person exclusive then, perhaps they could be involved in a homosexual relationship.

More or less, if the person is bi, they need to be honest with their heterosexual partner, stop deceiving them. In this time of AIDS, there's no sense in playing games b/c life is to short. You may as well be true to yourself. Now, if their hetero partner doesn't accept their lifestyle then, they should respect their view and seperate from them and find someone who will be more understanding of thier lifestyle.

Help me out here, which individual are you referring to?

If it's the person that cuddles, they claim to be not bisexual, but homosexual. I only brought their situation up because of your question to james. I was trying to figure out why you would ask a question regarding specific acts by someone who claims to be bisexual as if it would matter. Then I remembered that there was a person who considers themself as a homosexual beacuse they only like to "cuddle" with persons of the same sex. I never regarded cuddling as a sexual act, but they do.

So, I reasoned that if all they do is "cuddle," and they condsider themself a homosexual because they only perform the specific act of the "cuddle" with persons of the same sex, then the question you asked james, which was to qualify a specific act, was a valid one.

I didn't say the cuddler was bisexual, and I don't know that they are. They never classified themself as such.

[jamesfrmphilly]

why you asking all these ?
do you have any skin in the game?

you seem to be sucking out energy and not giving any in return.

Originally Posted by MadameX

Are you referring to Anally or Orally?

either way

Originally Posted by Ankhesenamun

I'm just as confused as Zorro. :confused: :LolLolLol

i don't think so.

you folks place way too much emphasis on who you do.
sex doesn't really matter. it is who you love that determines.
there is no statute of limitations on love.

one of my best fucks was a lesbian. she also enjoyed ******* men as well.
what made her gay was that her love and life partner was a woman.
she liked me and she ****** me but she was never in love with me.
anyone who worries about if they are gay or not most likely is gay.
straight people do not sit around trying to figure out what they are.
straight people are busy trying to figure out how to get some.

[lizaa]

In MY personal opinion if a person went there once ,it was in their mind, what occurs in your brain then you acted upon it..wheter it was curiosity or not I would consider that person either bi or gay.

*by the way why is this thread title secret Lover ?

Is it a secret ?

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by lizaa

*by the way why is this thread title secret Lover ?

you heard of the DL ain't ya?

[Zorro]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

why you asking all these ?
do you have any skin in the game?

you seem to be sucking out energy and not giving any in return.


either way


i don't think so.

you folks place way too much emphasis on who you do.
sex doesn't really matter. it is who you love that determines.
there is no statute of limitations on love.

one of my best fucks was a lesbian. she also enjoyed ******* men as well.
what made her gay was that her love and life partner was a woman.
she liked me and she ****** me but she was never in love with me.
anyone who worries about if they are gay or not most likely is gay.
straight people do not sit around trying to figure out what they are.
straight people are busy trying to figure out how to get some.

Sounds like words spoken by one who thinks he travels. Whether that's so or not, know this, I don't walk around simply making deposits in hairy banks. On the other hand, no one is forcing you to say anything. In case you didn't know, you can participate or not. Now, the only reason why I referenced you earlier was because I was asked to expound on something that you said. I think that everyone should be given the chance to qualify their own responses.

Moving forward, with regard to the posted question, you said "everyone knows" that if you practice the act at least three times, you fall into that catagory. Now, I started to ask you what number were you up to, because to me, you sounded like you were boasting with experience. But, it did't look like you were on, and I don't talk about people behind their backs. But now that you're talk'in to me, I find it interesting that when you commented on who you've been involved with, you didn't say a "woman," you made it clear that she is a lesbian. Now if that's the case, the last time I checked, a lesbian is a homosexual woman. So if your "lesbian" friend is do'in the wild thing with you (and more than your 3 time rule) and as you say, "loves" do'in the wild thing with men, and her "love and life partner" is a woman, that would make her bisexual. Hmmm.... Now that I think about it, I believe you thought that you were boasting. Not that it matters to me.

Growing up I was taught that most boasters are full of nothing but boasting, which sounds true in this case. Not only does it appear to be true, the sad thing is that it seems you don't know if your with a homosexual or a bisexual. That being that case, you just keep whistling.

I'll conclude by saying this, if there's something that you would like to know from me, formulate a real question and I'll answer it. If not, then have a nice day, Sugar.

Originally Posted by lizaa

In MY personal opinion if a person went there once ,it was in their mind, what occurs in your brain then you acted upon it..wheter it was curiosity or not I would consider that person either bi or gay.

*by the way why is this thread title secret Lover ?

Is it a secret ?

It's could also be a secret between the person who did it one time and the person they did it with.

[jamesfrmphilly]

Originally Posted by Zorro

I'll conclude by saying this, if there's something that you would like to know from me, formulate a real question and I'll answer it.

i repeat, do you, zorro have any skin in the game?
is this hypothetical to you or are we talking about you?

i already gave you my opinion, anyone who sits around wondering what they are is probably gay.

[Zorro]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

i repeat, do you, zorro have any skin in the game?
is this hypothetical to you or are we talking about you?

i already gave you my opinion, anyone who sits around wondering what they are is probably gay.

The question asked, is just a question.

It's got nothing to do with me.

It is interesting to see how opinions/ideas/perspectives have changed. Years ago if someone engaged in a homosexual act one time, aside from the other person knowing, they probably went to the grave with it. However, they may not have necessarily believed or viewed themself as homosexual or bisexual. Today, someone may particpate in a homosexual act once, then classify themself as bisexual and depending on which sex they are, they'll say they prefer this or that, again even if they don't participate in the homosexual act anymore.

Lastly, your opinion indicates that you think I might be "gay" because I posted this question. Just remember Zorro might have been known to wear tight pants, but he was better known as a man behind that mask who kicked ***, took no prisoners, and left his mark letting people know that he meant to do it.

[lizaa]

ZORRO could have been gay! [ smilin] who knows?]
HECK I feel the so called pres.is gay!

[goodcookinmama]

Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly

everybody knows you have to do it at least three times before you can be classified........ :whistling

you know you stupid for that one

[Serenity4Ever]

No.... they were just experimenting. Now if they conntinue to do it, that's a different story.