One night stands? Right or Wrong - Page 2 - AfroChat - African American

MrAtlanta · March 31st, 2006, 02:58 PM

It's not a problem to me, as long as there are two consenting ADULTS involved who are willing to accept the responsibility for their "deed". This is 2006, and not 1956.

goodcookinmama · March 31st, 2006, 03:15 PM

well back in the day yall well some of yall know that going out with ya friends clubbing partying going to the lake or what not well it was ok. when we were younger there was not so many risks envolved but now youll just be playing with your life so now in this day and age hell no no way and come now where are the closet people yall cant be serious well let me put it to you like this maybe it was a friend that you had a one night stand with cause thats how it was for me all of us friends and it just happend
we had a one night stand and it never happend again we was in our 20,s so but we are still friends and when i see him i still see that twinkle in his eyes like yea girl i remember and i get to blushing **** like i was a 20 something again

MadameX · March 31st, 2006, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by goodcookinmama

when we were younger there was not so many risks envolved but now youll just be playing with your life

I know that's right sistergirl. It's something how times have changed.

goodcookinmama · March 31st, 2006, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MadameX

I know that's right sistergirl. It's something how times have changed.

yes the times have changed too much for me we used to be so carefree
and did not have to worry about to much of anything now its crazy as hell

April 1st, 2006, 12:37 AM

I had one some yrs ago. As a personal choice I was never for it and once I had the experience I was strong in my conviction not to ever do it again. To date I still haven't gone there again and don't plan on it. But I won't judge anyone else who does it. I also won't say "never" for myself because if the right elements come into play like last time, well, I just be regretting it in the morning, just like last time.

stiab3 · April 1st, 2006, 04:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Serenity4Ever

It depends on your value system. Some people think that it's right, but I belong to the unpopular group that says it's wrong.

9/10 women (according to the survey) says it's immoral. So you're quite popular.

I'm not going to condemn it. Some people do it and they get something from it.
But along with many other things, it's not for me.
I don't think I'd get anything from it. I've considered it before.

s3

Proudbrothaman · April 1st, 2006, 05:54 AM

Pardon me AfroChat for posing a question and not letting my feelings be known...I'm kind of on the fence with this one. On one hand I feel that as an "adult" people should be able to do what they do. All people don't believe it's immoral, I would even go further and say it's probably mostly women that think it's immoral. That word immoral is used so quickly along with quotes from the bible on this topic. What's funny is some of the people spittin out this knowledge, won't do a one night stand but has a "friend". Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? On the other hand forget the STD's lets talk about babies. We have two people, who probably can't remember each others name at this point doing something that can possibly create life. Now I'm no scholar and I'm not a betting man ( I did play NY lotto last night 117million LOL) but I'm pretty sure that would be a single parent household. Can we really continue to have this epidemic we call single parent households?

stiab3 · April 1st, 2006, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Proudbrothaman

Pardon me AfroChat for posing a question and not letting my feelings be known...I'm kind of on the fence with this one. On one hand I feel that as an "adult" people should be able to do what they do. All people don't believe it's immoral, I would even go further and say it's probably mostly women that think it's immoral. That word immoral is used so quickly along with quotes from the bible on this topic. What's funny is some of the people spittin out this knowledge, won't do a one night stand but has a "friend". Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? On the other hand forget the STD's lets talk about babies. We have two people, who probably can't remember each others name at this point doing something that can possibly create life. Now I'm no scholar and I'm not a betting man ( I did play NY lotto last night 117million LOL) but I'm pretty sure that would be a single parent household. Can we really continue to have this epidemic we call single parent households?

that's why they have contraception. and that's especially why they sell it in public toilets. and they sell the morning after pill too.

I reckon most single-parent families start from 'relationships' where one parent has done a 'runner' than from one-night stands. Most of the time there are no illusions in a one-night stand.

s3

Proudbrothaman · April 1st, 2006, 09:27 AM

Well Stiab I'm going to go out on a limb and say atleast 20-30% of one nighters don't use contraception. That right there is enough

jamesfrmphilly · April 1st, 2006, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Proudbrothaman

Well Stiab I'm going to go out on a limb and say atleast 20-30% of one nighters don't use contraception. That right there is enough

how can you say that? why make up facts to suit an argument?
let's stick with reason.