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Old February 16th, 2005, 04:04 PM   #21 (permalink)
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It ain't got a darn thing to do with anything being "wrong with sex" it's about respect. I'm not going to encourage my children to engage in sexual activity (which should be a private thing) in anyone else's home. You want to engage in grown up activity, you should have a grown up house that way you can have it as much as you want.

No one will be freely having intercourse in MY home but me!

Definately NOT if your underage!
Other than it being your house rule, what is so disrespectful about it? (Grown married adult children, while you are away at the store.)
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Old February 16th, 2005, 05:59 PM   #22 (permalink)
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The fact that two adults see nothing wrong with having sexual contact(which releases certain bodily fluids) into an area that isn't their own.


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Other than it being your house rule, what is so disrespectful about it? (Grown married adult children, while you are away at the store.)
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Old February 16th, 2005, 06:15 PM   #23 (permalink)
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The fact that two adults see nothing wrong with having sexual contact(which releases certain bodily fluids) into an area that isn't their own.
Oh!

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Old February 16th, 2005, 06:45 PM   #24 (permalink)
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NO....thats just nasty
 
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Old February 17th, 2005, 02:42 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I wouldn't allow it, but unfortunatley it will probably happen at some point. My mother never "allowed" me, but I got plenny a' *** at home while she was at work. I dont think any of my bf's mothers allowed them to, but I did it at their homes too - even in one boyfriends mothers bed.

Better doin it at home than in the back of a car.
 
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Old February 17th, 2005, 02:58 PM   #26 (permalink)
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^^^:) at this story.

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Old February 17th, 2005, 05:31 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I wouldn't allow it, but unfortunatley it will probably happen at some point. My mother never "allowed" me, but I got plenny a' *** at home while she was at work. I dont think any of my bf's mothers allowed them to, but I did it at their homes too - even in one boyfriends mothers bed.

Better doin it at home than in the back of a car.

NOW THAT'S REAL !!!!!
Ya have to be clear on what you will/won't allow in ur home, but just like you said a child will find a way to do everything !!! We've all been there..
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Old February 19th, 2005, 04:32 AM   #28 (permalink)
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There is only so much I would know. I wouldn't stand at the door listening for sounds to find out whats going on and I'm sure they wouldn't come out and announce it. I really can't say what I would not allow because you'd be surprised at the things that go on behind closed doors whether you know about it or not.
I guess it boils down to respect and comfort. I personally wouldn't feel comfortable, I'd feel like a teenager sneaking around, but that's just me.
If they must, and attempt to while I'm not home, just don't bring it out in common areas.
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I wouldnt allow my children to do anything but will they do it....................They sure will.
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