Mother vs. Momma

Originally Posted by MadameX

Sistergirl, it's sad to see that you project your negativity on others. Society must've beaten you down, let go those shackles and stereotypes that media has been portrayed of us for so long. So You're still having issues dealing with what this site that projects: Black Unity, Community, &Afrocentrism. Wow, it must be challenging to deal with a site that tries to stand behind the Afro in the chat.

Hang in there Sistergirl. And whenever, you feel the need to project your frustration at others. You can just look in the mirror, take the time to do some self reflection through meditation/prayer and you'll feel better.

You've got to be crazy to think that I'm being negative when this thread is glorifying a negative side of the Black community. Go "help" somebody who really needs it, like YOU.

[MadameX]

Again, Stop projecting your negative energy at others.Society must've beaten you down, let go those shackles and stereotypes that media has been portrayed of us for so long. So You're still having issues dealing with what this site that projects: Black Unity, Community, &Afrocentrism. Wow, it must be challenging to deal with a site that tries to stand behind the Afro in the chat.
Sistergirl, you need to Look in the mirror at yourself a then, you get on your knees take the time to do some self reflection through meditation/prayer and you'll feel better.

Oh I see we're all out of original ideas now. Had to resort to copy/pasting, eh? Well, let's keep the party going!

You've got to be crazy to think that I'm being negative when this thread is glorifying a negative side of the Black community. Go "help" somebody who really needs it, like YOU.

Originally Posted by MadameX

Until you become receptive to Black unity I continue to post again & Again. Like I said misguided one, Stop projecting your negative energy at others.Society must've beaten you down, let go those shackles and stereotypes that media has been portrayed of us for so long. So You're still having issues dealing with what this site that projects: Black Unity, Community, &Afrocentrism. Wow, it must be challenging to deal with a site that tries to stand behind the Afro in the chat.
Sistergirl, you need to Look in the mirror at yourself a then, you get on your knees take the time to do some self reflection through meditation/prayer and you'll feel better.

Keep going. You're about to get a little surprise.

[MadameX]

Originally Posted by LiseYates

Keep going. You're about to get a little surprise.

Mark your own words and see if several of your victims of random hacks that subscibe to ISPs have reported the incidents to FBI whose current monitoring as we speak. Stop making threats online.

[mlc0908]

IMO, a spanking is a far cry from child abuse. We all understand the emphasis of the original post and I'm sure we"ve all witnessed that type of thing for ourselves. I know just what Dubfly was getting at because I've seen it happen plenty of times...in the mall, grocery stores, at the park, where ever. And while that white mother stands there trying to brush off the embarassment, I look at my son and can't even begin to picture him coming out of his face like that to me. I'm not saying that he doesn't need a reminder every now and then and on his off days, he begs for that tune up which I certainly honor his request. I know for a fact that does not equate to child abuse. Ever wonder why today's youth is so out of control? No question in my mind...children are being raised far differently then those of previous generations. Children now threaten to notify the authorities when a spanking is about to be the next thing they experience. (wonder where they get that stupid idea from). From morals ethics and values all the way to discipline including a good old fashioned butt whoopin, things have changed and not necessarily for the better. Make no mistake, I'm not saying spanking your children is always the answer. There are other methods of discipline but sometimes they really do need a tune up....we all do! Peace and blessings family.

[mlc0908]

Originally Posted by LiseYates

Keep going. You're about to get a little surprise.

Pardon me for stepping in here but I just had to come back to this thread to comment on this post. I understand that we won't always agree with one another, were not supposed to. I also understand that there will be times when our disagreements will escalate and sometimes take on a life of their own, which is natural. What I don't understand or appreciate is how and/or why we really get beside ourselves and make threats in a post directed towards one, any or all of our family members. Not only is it not necessary, it's disrespectful to whomever the threat is directed to as well as the entire fam including the staff who make this site available to us. I don't know what kind of little surprise you had in mind but I know it didn't involve positivity and that in itself is the exact opposite of the purpose of this site. Let's get it together family. Nothing wrong with opposing views, just keep it respectful and civil. Peace and blessings sis.

[DBlack]

Originally Posted by LiseYates

Apparently you didn't read my "Uncle Tom" disclaimer.

I'm starting to think that this website is for Blacks who want to remain static. Well go right ahead. The overall mentality of most folks on here is identical the one keeping Black folks down in society. It's time to step up, people.

Uh, 'sista',

I hope I am misunderstanding your statement, because it appears to be a threat. Lighten up please!

The views of one here don't reflect the views of all here. My opinion doesn't and shouldn't imply that everyone else here feels the same way. Just read some of my threads on Obama....

This tit for tat you are having with others members can be health if all of you want it to be. Let's not fall into the trap of over generalization and mis characterization.

[trinigirl]

Originally Posted by Dubfly

A black girl and a white girl were friends. The black
girl slept over the white girl's house.It was 3 a.m., and they were
still up.

The white girl's mother came downstairs and said,
"Honey, don't you
think it's time for you to go to bed?"
The white girl responded, "Shut up Mother, I don't
want to go to sleep!"

Her mother said, "Okay, honey. You can go to bed
later."The black girl
was very intrigued by what happened and decided to
use that when she got home.
The next night the black girl's mother said to the
black girl,
"Girl, go to bed! It's late!"
The black girl shouted, "Shut up Momma, I don't want
to go to sleep!"
The black girl's mother took one look at her& raised
her eyebrow.................



The black girl started to blink, looked
around, and asked, "Where am I?"

A lady came over to the bed and answered,


"You're in the Intensive Care Unit, Sweetie."

Thanks for the laugh,
This anectdote is so real for many caribbean parents and it did not kill us black people are running countries today all ove the world and certainly here, the rod was surely used.

As a black mother of two teenagers i RESERVE the right to punish then with the rod, a stick, a pot, a broom,..I brought them into this world (yes yes God through me) and i will take them out. They are GOOD children with great futures ahead. AND they KNOW we mom & dad LOVE them. we are there .

To those who may disagree with corporal punishment, to each his own but i think it is unfair, myopic, dishonest, and outright stupid to say it is as a result of beating that our black community is in the state that it is in. RUBBISH.
What about the quality of the education , what about the disparity in the social systens and services available. what about the imbalance in the justice system.. medical system, Do you think these in any way may have contributed to the state of a people and many suceed in spite of...

ps and hellll yes we are better mothers than many many of those that some of our black mother want to emulate. Who mothered them in the old days, even today.. please
just my 2cents