10 year old give birth impregnated by her mother’s boyfriend ! - AfroChat - African American

Dubfly · March 12th, 2008, 04:18 PM

The Enquirer - Tragedy of 10-year-old mom

This is horrendous I actually had to go to the mens room and get myself together …….!!!!

God help us !!!!!!!!!!!!

The baby’s birth at University Hospital on Nov. 4 was routine.
What wasn’t routine was the fact the infant’s mother was just 10, impregnated by her mother’s boyfriend.

Now, social workers are trying to figure out how to unravel the mess involving one of the youngest children ever to give birth in Greater Cincinnati.

Prosecutors were in court Wednesday to discuss what to do with both children, the newborn and her now 11-year-old mom.

The court session in Hamilton County Dependency Court on Wednesday was primarily a status session on how both the baby and young mother are doing.
At the same time Wednesday, Lockland police were in Columbus talking to a convict whose DNA shows he’s the baby girl’s father.

Michael Chaffer, 40, is accused of impregnating his girlfriend’s 10-year-old daughter, according to Hamilton County prosecutors.

The baby’s birth set off an investigation by the Hamilton County Department of Job and Family Services and stunned social workers because the baby’s mother is so young.

The baby has been taken from her mother and put in a foster home while the child-mother is now being taken care of by a relative. Her mother is not allowed to see the baby and can only see her daughter when supervised by social workers.
Lawyers jammed the courtroom Wednesday, representing the prosecutor’s office and all three generations of the family.

The girl’s mother was warned not to let any adult men in her Lockland home while caseworkers tried to track down the infant’s father.

Paternity was not determined until Wednesday morning.

Prosecutors say the girl’s mother ignored that order to keep adult men away from her child, and when a caseworker made a surprise visit to her Lockland home Jan. 4, they found Chaffer.

Assistant Hamilton County Prosecutor Lee Slocum said Chaffer faces criminal charges for impregnating and sexually molesting a girl under the age of 13.
Lockland Police Chief James Toles said two officers were interviewing Chaffer on Wednesday in a Columbus prison, where he is serving a one-year sentence on an unrelated charge.

Sex with a child under 13 is considered statutory rape, a crime punishable with a life prison term.

As JFS investigated the case, several relatives of the 11-year-old girl contacted the agency saying Chaffer sexually abused the girl for a “period of time.”

The 11-year-old girl’s mother is also under investigation, Slocum said, for allowing her daughter to be abused.

Job and Family Services workers can’t remember a case in which a girl so young gave birth.

“Unfortunately, sexual abuse is pretty common in the cases we see,” said JFS Director Moira Weir. “But it is highly unusual and extremely sad to see a case where a 10-year-old becomes pregnant.

“This is an example of why everyone in the community needs to be extremely vigilant about watching for the signs of abuse and notifying us through our 241-KIDS hotline,” she added. “The sooner we can intervene, the sooner we can make sure the child is in a safe situation.”

Hamilton County prosecutors want a court designation that the 11-year-old girl was abused. They allege the 11-year-old’s mother failed to care for her by allowing Chaffer near her.

Prosecutors also want to take the infant away from the mother because the sixth-grade student is too young to care for the baby.

As she waited for the hearing to start, the child, who was wearing faded jeans and a T-shirt hoody with her hair tied into a ponytail, sat next to her mother. She chatted about school, music and Disney video games.

During the hearing, as prosecutors and attorneys discussed the case and the possibility that the 11-year-old could lose her baby, she wiped away tears with the palms of her hands.

At Wednesday’s hearing, Magistrate Charles Milazzo determined the girl could visit her baby at least twice a week.

But he said the 11-year-old girl’s mother may see her only if social workers can supervise the visits, and that she may not see the baby.

Authorities became aware of the birth after the 11-year-old girl delivered the baby at University Hospital. Hospital officials notified JFS because the mother was so young.

The 11-year-old girl and the infant were allowed to remain in the mother’s home while JFS investigated the case. Two other men were eliminated as the baby’s father before Chaffer’s DNA was tested.

When the caseworker found Chaffer in the home Jan. 4 – a violation of JFS’ order that no men be in the home – they arrested him on a charge of obstruction of official business.

Court records show Chaffer slammed the door on the officer and refused to open it.
Chaffer pleaded guilty to that charge the next day, which violated his probation on an earlier drug charge. As a result he was sent to prison for one year.

JFS immediately took the 11-year-old girl and infant from the home

Evil_eyez · March 12th, 2008, 06:58 PM

Can You Say "castration"?

Its Ok 2 B Quiet · March 12th, 2008, 08:08 PM

I read about this sometime ago. This is some seriously sick sh*t right there - the mother should loose custody of her and any other kids she has. That little girl is going to be messed up for the rest of her life.

rekh · March 12th, 2008, 09:48 PM

The mother should do time, or at the very least, loose custody.

The A$$hole who violated that precious little girl, should be killed.

Anything like that happens to my child, and the mofo's life is forfeit.

htp (peace)

lizaa · March 13th, 2008, 01:08 AM

This is sooo disturbing to me- child abuse is one of the worst things that could happen to our lil ones who look to us [as adults for protection].

where was the neighbors, teachers, grandparents, aunts, uncles -the family when this lil girl's belly was getting large??

who could she confide in ??? Was there anyone ther for her ?

It takes a village to raise a child - was everyone around this baby Blind?
WHY ARE WE AS PEOPLE TURNING A BLIND'S EYE to abused children ?? iT'S the same concept as the homeless person- people are just stepping over them as well as though they are not there.

I actually saw with my eyes a north korean women sitting at a table eating while a hungry child [ who was homeless with no shoes on in the snow and freezing cold] stand near her eating the crumbs falling from her table and she behaved as though that child wasn't there at all.

NO EMOTION.
ARE WE AS A BLACK RACE TURNING INTO A NO- EMOTION TRIBE OF PEOPLE??

MzKwietStorm · March 13th, 2008, 09:54 AM

What possible pleasure could this so called man get from a 10 year old girl? I can't imagine how painful it was for her. This is just crazy!!!!!

MadameX · March 14th, 2008, 02:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rekh

The mother should do time, or at the very least, loose custody.

The A$$hole who violated that precious little girl, should be killed.

Anything like that happens to my child, and the mofo's life is forfeit.

htp (peace)

Case Closed.

PHILROSE · April 27th, 2008, 02:05 PM

I am shocked, angry and sad by what i've just read.

That beast needs to suffer. Someone should take a rusty knife and cut off his hood, hands & foot and slice him up then rub some salt in his wounds.

As for the mother....how the hell she allow this to happen and STILL have the man around her daughter. Furthermore, what about the rest of the family and neighbours also friends? Your telling me that not one person never realise the little girl was pregnant?

They should gut out the mothers womb so she's not able to have anymore children and what other children she does have, they need to take them away from her.

THEY NEED TO LOCK HER UP.

The problems this poor girl will or is going through, one can only imagine.

PHILROSE · April 27th, 2008, 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rekh

The mother should do time, or at the very least, loose custody.

The A$$hole who violated that precious little girl, should be killed.

Anything like that happens to my child, and the mofo's life is forfeit.

htp (peace)

This is why i can never understand how some mother choose not to do nothing in this situation. Some even go as far as to blame the child for what has happened to them.
These women are so needy to have a man in their life that they don't care about the children well-being.

This is why i say that some women have NO RIGHT having children.

afrocentric · April 27th, 2008, 06:06 PM

you know, i have a little girl who is almost 10 and reading this makes me want to cry.

March 12th, 2008, 04:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
Dubfly Afr0 Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New England Gender: Posts: 44 Thanks: 0 Thanked 18 Times in 10 Posts Rep Power: 0 Credits: 974	10 year old give birth impregnated by her mother’s boyfriend ! The Enquirer - Tragedy of 10-year-old mom This is horrendous I actually had to go to the mens room and get myself together …….!!!! God help us !!!!!!!!!!!! The baby’s birth at University Hospital on Nov. 4 was routine. What wasn’t routine was the fact the infant’s mother was just 10, impregnated by her mother’s boyfriend. Now, social workers are trying to figure out how to unravel the mess involving one of the youngest children ever to give birth in Greater Cincinnati. Prosecutors were in court Wednesday to discuss what to do with both children, the newborn and her now 11-year-old mom. The court session in Hamilton County Dependency Court on Wednesday was primarily a status session on how both the baby and young mother are doing. At the same time Wednesday, Lockland police were in Columbus talking to a convict whose DNA shows he’s the baby girl’s father. Michael Chaffer, 40, is accused of impregnating his girlfriend’s 10-year-old daughter, according to Hamilton County prosecutors. The baby’s birth set off an investigation by the Hamilton County Department of Job and Family Services and stunned social workers because the baby’s mother is so young. The baby has been taken from her mother and put in a foster home while the child-mother is now being taken care of by a relative. Her mother is not allowed to see the baby and can only see her daughter when supervised by social workers. Lawyers jammed the courtroom Wednesday, representing the prosecutor’s office and all three generations of the family. The girl’s mother was warned not to let any adult men in her Lockland home while caseworkers tried to track down the infant’s father. Paternity was not determined until Wednesday morning. Prosecutors say the girl’s mother ignored that order to keep adult men away from her child, and when a caseworker made a surprise visit to her Lockland home Jan. 4, they found Chaffer. Assistant Hamilton County Prosecutor Lee Slocum said Chaffer faces criminal charges for impregnating and sexually molesting a girl under the age of 13. Lockland Police Chief James Toles said two officers were interviewing Chaffer on Wednesday in a Columbus prison, where he is serving a one-year sentence on an unrelated charge. Sex with a child under 13 is considered statutory rape, a crime punishable with a life prison term. As JFS investigated the case, several relatives of the 11-year-old girl contacted the agency saying Chaffer sexually abused the girl for a “period of time.” The 11-year-old girl’s mother is also under investigation, Slocum said, for allowing her daughter to be abused. Job and Family Services workers can’t remember a case in which a girl so young gave birth. “Unfortunately, sexual abuse is pretty common in the cases we see,” said JFS Director Moira Weir. “But it is highly unusual and extremely sad to see a case where a 10-year-old becomes pregnant. “This is an example of why everyone in the community needs to be extremely vigilant about watching for the signs of abuse and notifying us through our 241-KIDS hotline,” she added. “The sooner we can intervene, the sooner we can make sure the child is in a safe situation.” Hamilton County prosecutors want a court designation that the 11-year-old girl was abused. They allege the 11-year-old’s mother failed to care for her by allowing Chaffer near her. Prosecutors also want to take the infant away from the mother because the sixth-grade student is too young to care for the baby. As she waited for the hearing to start, the child, who was wearing faded jeans and a T-shirt hoody with her hair tied into a ponytail, sat next to her mother. She chatted about school, music and Disney video games. During the hearing, as prosecutors and attorneys discussed the case and the possibility that the 11-year-old could lose her baby, she wiped away tears with the palms of her hands. At Wednesday’s hearing, Magistrate Charles Milazzo determined the girl could visit her baby at least twice a week. But he said the 11-year-old girl’s mother may see her only if social workers can supervise the visits, and that she may not see the baby. Authorities became aware of the birth after the 11-year-old girl delivered the baby at University Hospital. Hospital officials notified JFS because the mother was so young. The 11-year-old girl and the infant were allowed to remain in the mother’s home while JFS investigated the case. Two other men were eliminated as the baby’s father before Chaffer’s DNA was tested. When the caseworker found Chaffer in the home Jan. 4 – a violation of JFS’ order that no men be in the home – they arrested him on a charge of obstruction of official business. Court records show Chaffer slammed the door on the officer and refused to open it. Chaffer pleaded guilty to that charge the next day, which violated his probation on an earlier drug charge. As a result he was sent to prison for one year. JFS immediately took the 11-year-old girl and infant from the home Last edited by Dubfly : March 12th, 2008 at 04:22 PM.

March 12th, 2008, 06:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
Evil_eyez Afro Resident Emerging Voice Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: In the depths of solitude Gender: Posts: 270 Thanks: 53 Thanked 52 Times in 43 Posts Rep Power: 10 Credits: 1,741	Can You Say "castration"? __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. *RESPECTED LIKE A QUEEN...BUT TRUSTED 2 HAVE FLAWS*

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rekh Afro Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: >>HERE<< Gender: Posts: 47 Thanks: 0 Thanked 5 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 0 Credits: 509	The mother should do time, or at the very least, loose custody. The A$$hole who violated that precious little girl, should be killed. Anything like that happens to my child, and the mofo's life is forfeit. htp (peace) __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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lizaa Afro Resident Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: California Gender: Posts: 1,082 Thanks: 27 Thanked 42 Times in 30 Posts Rep Power: 23 Credits: 10,017	This is sooo disturbing to me- child abuse is one of the worst things that could happen to our lil ones who look to us [as adults for protection]. where was the neighbors, teachers, grandparents, aunts, uncles -the family when this lil girl's belly was getting large?? who could she confide in ??? Was there anyone ther for her ? It takes a village to raise a child - was everyone around this baby Blind? WHY ARE WE AS PEOPLE TURNING A BLIND'S EYE to abused children ?? iT'S the same concept as the homeless person- people are just stepping over them as well as though they are not there. I actually saw with my eyes a north korean women sitting at a table eating while a hungry child [ who was homeless with no shoes on in the snow and freezing cold] stand near her eating the crumbs falling from her table and she behaved as though that child wasn't there at all. NO EMOTION. ARE WE AS A BLACK RACE TURNING INTO A NO- EMOTION TRIBE OF PEOPLE?? __________________ ~~~KEEP YOUR HEAD UP~~~Lizaa

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MzKwietStorm Afro Resident Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: South Carolina Gender: Posts: 650 Thanks: 90 Thanked 94 Times in 54 Posts Rep Power: 21 Credits: 5,728	What possible pleasure could this so called man get from a 10 year old girl? I can't imagine how painful it was for her. This is just crazy!!!!! __________________ You can't enjoy where you're going, if you deny where you've been!

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Its Ok 2 B Quiet Afro Resident Emerging Voice Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Inland Empire Gender: Posts: 214 Thanks: 1 Thanked 15 Times in 15 Posts Rep Power: 5 Credits: 1,341	I read about this sometime ago. This is some seriously sick sh*t right there - the mother should loose custody of her and any other kids she has. That little girl is going to be messed up for the rest of her life.

April 27th, 2008, 02:05 PM	#8 (permalink)
PHILROSE Afro Resident Occasional 2Cents Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: London, UK Gender: Posts: 26 Thanks: 4 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 0 Credits: 182	I am shocked, angry and sad by what i've just read. That beast needs to suffer. Someone should take a rusty knife and cut off his hood, hands & foot and slice him up then rub some salt in his wounds. As for the mother....how the hell she allow this to happen and STILL have the man around her daughter. Furthermore, what about the rest of the family and neighbours also friends? Your telling me that not one person never realise the little girl was pregnant? They should gut out the mothers womb so she's not able to have anymore children and what other children she does have, they need to take them away from her. THEY NEED TO LOCK HER UP. The problems this poor girl will or is going through, one can only imagine. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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afrocentric Afro Resident Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: oklahoma city Gender: Posts: 2,665 Thanks: 1,013 Thanked 405 Times in 323 Posts Rep Power: 58 Credits: 17,030	you know, i have a little girl who is almost 10 and reading this makes me want to cry. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. hey yall!!!

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