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[JamieC]

I'm on your side Blak on that note and I've known ya for a long time.. But until you have children and can relate to it, then it's a totally different story. Walk in our shoes and you'd understand.

Hugs :)

[Blak]

Originally Posted by JamieC

I'm on your side Blak on that note and I've known ya for a long time.. But until you have children and can relate to it, then it's a totally different story. Walk in our shoes and you'd understand.

Hugs :)

I know that for some things I say you can argue that....but are you saying that I will lose the tendency to care for children and lose the will to change the wrong things my parents did when I have kids? (honest question)

Will I become more cold blooded upon reaching fatherhood? If so, should I become a father? I dont see that anything I said is unreasonable. I know that I pay attention to things you post though. What in my post is an unreasonalbe expectation?

Also.....with all the talk of "I dont owe them nothing" It sounds like kids are a burden to most black parents,...but who made them have babies? Why have kids just to "tolerate" them at best? I dont understand that logic. I am trying to learn as much as I can because the second I think I wont be happy to give 110%...I will simply decide NOT to become a father.

Any response you give is appreciated :)

Blak

[Blak]

Originally Posted by Blak

...but are you saying that I will lose the tendency to care for children and lose the will to change the wrong things my parents did when I have kids? (honest question)

Will I become more cold blooded upon reaching fatherhood? If so, should I become a father?

Also.....with all the talk of "I dont owe them nothing" It sounds like kids are a burden to most black parents,...but who made them have babies?

Why have kids just to "tolerate" them at best? I dont understand that logic.



Blak

Anyone can answer these questions. If you like I can start a new thread on this topic of why our people have kids just to hate doing their job and only feel the need to tolerate kids.

Another question:
why when black parents have good kids, do they look high and low for examples of bad kids and say "I wish my kid would do that ...... whup their A$$......", rather than appreciate that they have good kids? Why look for the drama? Why dont I see more threads on what kids have done right?

Thanks (in advance) to all yall parents for passing on the knowledge to me since it has been established that I dont know becuase I aint one. :biggrin:

Blak