Mean Moms

[LadyDivine]

Someday when my children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates a parent, I will tell them, as my Mean Mom told me: I loved you enough . . . to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.

I loved you enough to be silent and let you
discover that your new best friend was a creep.

I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.


I loved you enough to let you see anger,
disappointment, and tears in my eyes. Children must
learn that their parents aren't perfect.

I loved you enough to let you assume the
responsibility for your actions even when the
penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough . . . to say
NO when I knew you would hate me for it.

Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm
glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.
And someday when your children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.

Was your Mom mean? I know mine was. We had the
meanest mother in the whole world! While other kids
ate candy for breakfast, we had to have cereal, eggs, and toast.
When others had a Pepsi and a Twinkie for lunch, we had to eat sandwiches.
And you can guess our mother fixed us a dinner that was
different from what other kids had, too.

Mother insisted on knowing where we were at all
times. You'd think we were convicts in a prison. She
had to know who our friends were, and what we were
doing with them. She insisted that if we said we
would be gone for an hour, we would be gone for an hour or less.

We were ashamed to admit it, but she had the nerve
to break the Child Labor Laws by making us work We
had to wash the dishes, make the beds, learn to
cook, vacuum the floor, do laundry, empty the trash
and all sorts of cruel jobs. I think she would lie
awake at night thinking of more things for us to do.

She always insisted on us telling the truth, the
whole truth, and nothing but the truth. By the time
we were teenagers, she could read our minds and had
eyes in the back of her head. Then, life was really tough!

Mother wouldn't let our friends just honk the horn
when they drove up. They had to come up to the door
so she could meet them. While everyone else could
date when they were 12 or 13, we had to wait until we were 16.

Because of our mother we missed out on lots of
things other kids experienced. None of us have ever
been caught shoplifting, vandalizing other's
property or ever arrested for any crime. It was all her fault.

Now that we have left home, we are all educated,
honest adults. We are doing our best to be mean
parents just like Mom was.

I think that is what's wrong with the world today.
It just doesn't have enough mean moms!

[Sumyr]

I know I had a mean mom - hated it then; thankful now. This was good. Thanks for sharing! :)

[Samoon]

My mother just gave us THE LOOK...that said it all. And with today's parenting it would be welcomed to see MORE of this.

[urfan2c]

I appreciate every aspect of my mother the good and bad...and i'm thankful for everything she has done,does, and will do.

[LadyDivine]

I have a teenager so I have to listen to "I HATE YOU!" often, but I know in a few years she will be saying mom "I LOVE YOU!"

Her friends think I hate them. One of them even asked me if "I hated them."
I told her know I loved her, but I HATE when you all try to play us parents as stupid.

Somehow they forget we have been there and DONE ALL OF DAT!

[darkreign]

As a child I thought our mother was mean.but as a man and a parent i see that she loved us and wanted the best for us.

Depending on what it was, she only told you something once, maybe twice,
but never,never,never was there a third time on anything..

i hated the whuppins she called "for old and new"

And if we “half-did” a job she would wake us up with a whuppin about 2 in the morning to redo the whole thing over; and I still remember her words.

“and ya bettin not be late fo school nee’tha”…(with tear in our eyes) “yes mam”

but before she died about 2 years ago I thanked her for being hard on us and teaching us respect and how to fend for ourselves.

My momma only had a 3rd grade education but I see now as a grown man/husband/parent, she was a genius.

I love momma and thank you again.

Peace!!!