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Lonewolf · May 5th, 2005, 08:11 PM

If a woman cheats on me, she's fired. No questions asked, I'm not interested in why, no second chances.

Now me? I did, once when I was 20. The reason I call it cheating is because I was not officially broken up with my so called girlfriend at the time. I didn't want to be with her anymore but she didn't know that yet, at least I don't think she did. As you can see, I was young then.

There is no excuse for it, and I didn't set out to, but it happened. She never knew about it, but I have to tell you that those guys were full of crap. When it happened it wasn't because someting was "missing" from the relationship (there was, but it had nothing to do with the night in question) it was because it was there. I was in a situation that I shouldn't have been in, and since I didn't like my girlfriend anymore I didn't have a problem with what I did at the time.

My point is, if I had been in a situation where I really was in love with my girlfriend and wanted to be with her still, there is NO WAY I would have allowed myself to be in that situation. The fact is I wasn't even thinking about her when it happened, so for these guys to say that they cheated because of their wives lacking somewhere is BS. They did it because they didn't care about their wives.

Would I cheat now? Nope, because if I was actually lucky enough to be with someone worth a d@mn there's no way I'd screw it up or disrespect our relationship. I had no idea back then that finding a so called "good" black woman would be next to impossible. So if I ever get one there's no chance in hell of me cheating.

But like I said, if she cheats, she's fired.

May 5th, 2005, 08:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
Lonewolf Afro Resident Lonewolf is offline Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 896 Thanks: 0 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts Rep Power: 0 Credits: 3,749	If a woman cheats on me, she's fired. No questions asked, I'm not interested in why, no second chances. Now me? I did, once when I was 20. The reason I call it cheating is because I was not officially broken up with my so called girlfriend at the time. I didn't want to be with her anymore but she didn't know that yet, at least I don't think she did. As you can see, I was young then. There is no excuse for it, and I didn't set out to, but it happened. She never knew about it, but I have to tell you that those guys were full of crap. When it happened it wasn't because someting was "missing" from the relationship (there was, but it had nothing to do with the night in question) it was because it was there. I was in a situation that I shouldn't have been in, and since I didn't like my girlfriend anymore I didn't have a problem with what I did at the time. My point is, if I had been in a situation where I really was in love with my girlfriend and wanted to be with her still, there is NO WAY I would have allowed myself to be in that situation. The fact is I wasn't even thinking about her when it happened, so for these guys to say that they cheated because of their wives lacking somewhere is BS. They did it because they didn't care about their wives. Would I cheat now? Nope, because if I was actually lucky enough to be with someone worth a d@mn there's no way I'd screw it up or disrespect our relationship. I had no idea back then that finding a so called "good" black woman would be next to impossible. So if I ever get one there's no chance in hell of me cheating. But like I said, if she cheats, she's fired.