[The Dragon]

Originally Posted by serene

This could be for many reasons. And just a side.....how old is he....might make a lil easier to understand.

But Black women and white women are different. Lets be real. We just are. I'm gonna say this all out of assumption. It could be that you displayed such strength and independence that, maybe it sort of scares him. I sometimes find that some guys find that SOME guys find it as threatening. I don't know why. I'm a student, and i can find a guy my age that recognizes this just me. I am a lil aggressive, and i'm independent. I grew with one parent, (mother), and so i am a certain way. It doesn't mean i want a white guy, it just means, that the guys I come in to contact with, just can't handle me. The funny thing is, i can be great friends with these guys, but just friends.

On the other hand, it can alllll just be a phase. If he's not use to being around different people, its probably a fascination. Maybe a temp one. only time will tell. Just from personal experience, most of my guy friends, who got into "beckys" durign the early teen phase, I've never known them to be with a black girl.. So its hard to say.

Men are intimidated by me also for the same reasons. Although I am more passive aggressive I am definitely independent; Maybe too much so. I believe this is a turn off to men, period.

I am so glad I don't have any sons cause I would not tolerate interracial dating. No excuses.