[StJohn1726]

Originally Posted by serene

Not sure if this was done in here already, but what are your absolute deal breakers for you when it comes to relationships

Lack of independent decision making.

1. Ask me for my opinion, but don't ask me to make choices for you.
2. Keeping up with the Jones'. Determine your own level of success and aspire to that. Buy a Benz because it's a very well engineered sedan and not because your sister and her husband just bought one.
3. If you're happy in any situation you choose to be in, don't let others determine what steps you should take next by succumbing to their charges of you being dumb or stupid. You have to live with your choices; they don't.

If I witness much of any of these, I'm out.