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Interesting thread. My middle son started off liking and only dating hispanic and/or white girls in middle school/early HS. At somepoint, he switched up and dates only black girls and says he prefers them.
Now my oldest (18yrs old) blossomed late. He had his first girlfriend last year! But he always expressed his desire to only date a "sister" and that he didn't want to go outside of his race. He said the girls at his school only liked "knuckleheads" and it was hard to find one. They do go to school where it is mostly hispanic, asian & white with small amount of blacks. His uncles/aunts on dad's side have either white/hispanic mates and he felt like they dated "them" cause they couldn't handle a sister.
Well he 360'd (in more ways than one) and started dating this philipino girl a few months ago. He acts like he's lost his mind and has been acting real ignorant - so much that a conversation took place that he needed to pull it in, or there would be a problem. Nope he's not even having sex yet! I am hoping he will snap out of it and connect to who he is because it seems this one is having a little identity issue.
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