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Originally Posted by DBlack

Do you choose to be a heterosexual?

Children do alot of things and don't know why they do them. They aren't capable of understanding many of their actions. My son plays with his big sister and he occasionally plays with her pink teddy bears. That doesn't mean he has homosexual tendencies. Give me a break.

Everything you do in life is by choice and consequence. PERIOD.

Yes, CHILDREN do alot of things and don't know why they do them, but I was there the entire time. The fact that your son plays with his big sister or a pink teddy bear does not exhibit "homosexual tendencies", but when a 9 or 10 year old goes into his mother's room and makes up his face (better than she can make her own face), polishes his nails and toenails, puts on a wig, and puts on her underwear and bra, there's a problem. This is one of many incidents from the time he turned 5 or 6 and each time it got worse. His mom was very STRICT when it came to homosexuality with him and I've watched her beat him many times from 11 and older, trying to "beat it out of him." She did not want to believe that her son way gay. As I stated, I'm no scientist, but based on what 've seen and lived with, I honestly believe that my cousin, was born gay.
I don't believe he choose to be this way. He would cry to me all the time because he could see how much his being gay hurt his mother and he could not understand why he was the way he was. For a long time he went into a state of depression and he tried to kill himself. When Nicole (his mom) saw him like that, she realized that she had to accept the fact that her son was gay and no amount of beatings could change that. He and his mother are fine now. He's done modeling, fashion shows, numerous dance contests, and he started Howard University last year. I'm proud of him for staying true to himself, despite everything he's been through.