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We have children from ex's so we have no choice. So far, so good. The children only do what they are taught so once they become funky, I'll know mamma is the real culprit. The ex doesn't mess with me because I demanded respect from the very beginning, when you call, when you speak to me address me, treat me how you want to be treated. The most important thing is reminding my husband where he sleeps at night so he is obligated to NOONE but me. If he had to choose which one of us to make happy, he knows the answer.