[MadameX]

Originally Posted by lady4peace

I don't want to be a doormat for him to walk over.

Sistergirl, you're already his doormat if you've supposedly been going off and on with him 19 years, allowed yourself to move and in with him as a mistress (downright sinful). Basically, I'm going to tell you like the same thing that I told this other lost Sista by the login name of Namaste because of alot of young misguided sista are lost and naive to reality hitting you in face putting yourself out there on internet like that as a Black woman .

AgainSistagirl,if you want your realationship to work and everything in life to align just look in the mirror at yourself and do some soul searching/reflecing and meditation. Then , you get on your knees in prayer and look up the sky and give praise to the almighty for the answer you really want lies with him.