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Originally Posted by RealTalk3000
Why do some women get knocked up by married men who they know are attached,and knowing dang well he's not going to leave his wife for her? my cousin has a friend, who is preggo by a married man, and she's about 22 with 3 kids, now it's baby number 4 by the married, dude. are some women just homewreckers?
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Just because a woman gets pregnant by a married man doesn't necessarily mean she's trying to wreck that man's marriage/family. I'm positive in some cases it's a matter of deception...who knows what that man has told her about his home life or if he's even told her he was married at all. On the other hand, some women just don't care if that man is married and/or will settle for being the other woman or the 2nd family (if she'll even be that). This is the woman who needs to do a little soul searching and discover the many things there are about her to love and to be loved. At the same time she needs a reality check and a lesson on self respect and respect for others. I can't fathom knowingly becoming involved with a married man let alone getting pregnant by one...That's all the way around the board a no-fly for me.
Just to put the possibility out there, I had a full time, serious, out in the open relationship with a man for an entire year before all of the pieces finally fit together in the puzzle that was his marriage. Luckily we practiced safe sex and made no babies but still, it can happen that way......I knew he was too good to be true ya'll.