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DBlack · March 31st, 2008, 06:15 PM

Both parties are usually at fault. We are supposed to take care of the one's we are committed to and vice versa. If someone is neglected, they may (not justifiably so) choose to go outside the relationship. That doesn't make it right, but in life there is cause and effect.

I am not saying I would do it, nor am I saying that men or women should do it. It's all about RESTRAINT and COMMITMENT on both sides!

Don't think you can sit at home, get fat, don't do what you are supposed to do, and if your mate cheats, call foul. In the court of law, the call is "mitigating circumstances". You BOTH are most likely to blame.

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DBlack Founder DBlack is offline Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 7,569 Thanks: 330 Thanked 1,333 Times in 718 Posts Rep Power: 193 Credits: 378,006	Both parties are usually at fault. We are supposed to take care of the one's we are committed to and vice versa. If someone is neglected, they may (not justifiably so) choose to go outside the relationship. That doesn't make it right, but in life there is cause and effect. I am not saying I would do it, nor am I saying that men or women should do it. It's all about RESTRAINT and COMMITMENT on both sides! Don't think you can sit at home, get fat, don't do what you are supposed to do, and if your mate cheats, call foul. In the court of law, the call is "mitigating circumstances". You BOTH are most likely to blame. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.