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Old March 23rd, 2008, 11:38 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by MzKwietStorm View Post
There's a similar situation like that at my job now. In her situation, she didn't know the man was married and by the time she found out, she had already fell in love and didn't care. Most women look for affection whenever and however they can get it, no matter the circumstance. Both the man and the woman play a part in this "homewrecking". The man should not be out looking and the woman should respect the institution of marriage enough to back off when she finds out the man is married.

i agree...as i said so many times...i'm not into hurting my sistas,and definately not myself...i wouldn't sell myself so short.you said she didn't know he was married...well i feel like this,there are ways to find out before you even get into any relationship...male or female.when i'm talking to someone,i asked questions.i know at first all i can do is take his word...but once we start to date....if i can't come to his home ...at anytime,and unanounced,(which i wouldn't)but he don't have to know that! or call him whenever i want...then there's something he's hiding.i always feel ...if a guy gives you all kid of reasons why you can't call him at certain times...or come to his place,somethings not right.



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