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Well, now that it's quiet in here, I've had a chance to reflect on what I've said before and although my thoughts on that haven't changed... outside of the race factor, why would this man turn to a woman that he has already slept with for advice on another woman? Unless she's a saint, her opinion would be tainted because of their past and a biased opinion will hardly ever be a fair one. If I were the BW in this situation, I couldn't help but to think that the outcome would be the same for us as it is for the BM and WW, which would make me leery of him if not turned off all together. More than likely the latter- I don't really have the desire to follow up behind my co-workers and/or people I know, see or interact with on a regular basis. But, that's just me. There's just too many red flags here for me.