[soulfulempress]

I think the real issue shouldnt be her race, but the fact that he used to be involved with her and now he is seeking her counsel...I believe I stated this before but who goes to their ex about their relationship issues?!?!?!?

I just read an article in Essence about a woman who is married to man who was still talking to his ex....and her name was Becky too(and she was white) go figure!.....

Anyway, if a man is asking another woman about his interest towards you then he obviously doesnt feel strongly enough about you to make his own decisions as a grown arse man

And what was the point in telling you about the opinion this chick had of you???, she should not even come up in you guy's conversations...its all about you hun......

Cut this loser loose!