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Originally Posted by cosmicurious
This is the story: I am interested in this guy that I met four months ago. He tells me that he likes me but that his "Home Girl" tells him that I am intelligent but a bit immature for him. I am in my mid-thirties with no kids and he is in his early forties, divorced and has three children. Despite her warning he continues to seek me out. I, eventually, found out that she is a coworker of ours. She happens to be a white woman that he slept with and now they are just friends. I am simply thrown. I thought that he was a deeply conscious black man, but now I am completely disgusted that he seeks her counsel and does not see the hidden motives in her advice.
I want nothing more to do with him.
Am I overreacting? I would appreciate any and all comments.
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Let me get this straight? He slept with her--his EX and now they are friends? And a (quote) "deeply, conscious BLACK man to boot?" This is funny as all get out.
Out of curiosity, how is Becky's "working" relationship with other sistas there in your work arena? The "brotha" chooses Becky's counsel, the very same one that he tossed? And now he and she are as tight as two peas in a pod?
I KNOW what I'd tell him AND then Becky. But I'll play nice. TOSS that fish BACK and continue treating Becky as you have been---as a non-entity.
p.s. Your screen name...."interesting." Tell us more about it?