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What do YOU owe your s/o in your relationship?
There are sooo many things. I owe him for helping me see that being in a relationship is not a cure for being lonely. You have to work at it. You can be with someone and still be lonely, so I owe my husband his involvement and dedication to our marriage. I also him thank him for balancing me and allowing me to grow into being a christian wife and knowing our roles in our marriage.


What are things that you believe they are entitled to, without crossing any lines, being unreasonable or too outlandish?
They are entitled to without a doubt peace in their house and your sincere desire to keep them up everyday. They deal with foolishness at work, trying to maintain a financial security for you and your children ( a good man that is), and many other obstacles out there once they cross your threshold. When they come home, it should be to peace. someone that really cares about their needs and wants to replenish anything that the world took out of him that day to prepare him for the next.

NOW MIND YOU......... I did not say, a clean house, cooked food, quiet children, drawn bath, etc.....every relationship is different. You make what works for you. We are not their maids, we are their helpmeets. We are their to help meet the goal that God has for them, to push them into their purpose, propel them into their destiny. Our destiny is locked into our husbands destiny.