[Curious1]

Originally Posted by Harmony

What do YOU owe your s/o in your relationship? Honesty,Realism,Some vulnerability..but love him and support him in spite of his character,personality flaws and traits..Understand that he is NOT GOD and he is only Human and he will fail at something sometime some where somehow..I owe him room to fall and make mistakes and not step on him and over him if he can't be "perfect" all the time..Allow him to cry and not judge,but support..I owe him patience and my unconditional REALISTIC not FANTASY Fairy Tale Love...but ..His Woman "Do or Die 'Soldier' " (Destiny child lol,just kidding..)

What are things that you believe they are entitled to, without crossing any lines, being unreasonable or too outlandish? To put me in my place and reel me back to reality in a constructive manner.To have me compromise on some things for the betterment of the relationship..a "Partna" is a " Partna" for a reason..I can't just go willy-nilly doing my own thing,my own way,my own how without some regard for him and his input..Of course he is entitled to intimacy and fulfilling his needs...I keep tylenol available..just in case..lol.

What does their being in love with you, guarantee? A Friend for life if nothing else...if we don't make it and only if the split would be amicable..Otherwise..him in love with me..he gets a chick who is willing to listen more than talk and allow him to speak when he wants to or is ready to...I try not to nag but hey..lol..marraige is a learning process,ON Hands Trail by Error experience some times..But he gets a woman who strives to have his back..and not embarass him or disrespect him when I'm with or without him.I strive to make sure his wife looks presentable in public with or without him..I realize I am an extension of him and have to represent appropriately even if casual quick in/out errand at least have my hair neat and clean clothes..(he knows a lot of people,like being married to some Music Legend or Pastor sometimes..lol)...But,He gets much respect and adulation from me and others know where he stands in my life..It is readily made apparent..lol..He gets me trying to live up to those Wedding Vows we made in church before a Pastor,aour friends and our family..He gets that..

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