[Mr Gumbo]

Originally Posted by SistahSpeak

I think it's multi-layered.

My grandmother taught my mother, who in turn told me, that most homewrecka's don't want your man, they just don't want you to have them.

- Married vibe? Well, I'm sure if you married the woman, she's taking care of you. you're eating well so your skin is clear, she's scheduled your appointment to the dentist, your clothes are ironed, your socks match, you're smilin' cause you're gettin' good lovin on a regular without the gamble or game. shoot! You're attractive because you're energy is on point!

- And of course what the others said before me is true too. Some of these "women" are probably doing this and calling it a challenge. In my opinion, they don't love themselves enough and have been hurt so much that they in turn, probably subconsciously, desire to deliver such pain to someone else.

- There's the element of competition. "Oh, she thinks she's all that!" If she can get you to turn your head, or get your attention, she get's some twisted satisfaction that she's the "baddest B". sick but true.

With all of these variations stated, the author of all of this is the adversary, the anti-God Spirit that wants to destroy what the Creator calls good. By marrying that woman you have become a god to her and those children. They have a leader, a protector, a guide. We're fighting a Spiritual War out here... we mustn't forget this. The war is not with those women, but with the adversary attempting to destroy what you and your family is building.

Press on... continue to think with your Spiritual Intellect rather than your carnal mind.

Keep On!

Yeah I'm sure I'm giving off some strong energy right now because I'm as happy as a punk in prison right now. She done cleaned me up and filled my belly fa sho!!!