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You know what, this is a deep question. Truthfully, all parents obviously don't want their minor children having sex at all because they aren't mentally prepared for it. Now, I have 2 boys almost 3 and 12. I have to say my oldest is GIRL CRAZY right now. I don't think my ethics would allow him to do it at home but in my head for the next 6 years until he goes to college, I will always be thinking, where is he, what is he doing. Would you rather he do it somewhere else? I just keep speaking the finality of the situation, how you can't get your first time back again and the difference between love and sex.

I do let him call girls now but I speak to their parents first and make sure they allow their daughters to speak to boys out of respect and so the girl can't turn around later and say my son is harrasing her. It's rough though dealing with sex and your child.