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"Looking" does not cost a thing--but "branching out" AND experiencing the life-styles of other people and cultures is not a bad thing either. Sumyr is correct, you have EVERYTHING to gain--if your act is together!
(memories, and I had FUN!) I STILL hold friendships with a few of the guys that I grew up and in college whose hair I braided, listened to THEIR tales of woe and heart-break, played sister to being their "date" if there was an important event and they did not want to go dateless, etc. And you know what? Some were "local" guys, but they all made "secure and decent MEN." Why? Because I/we made them aware what the level of expectation was and remains. SOMEONE showed THEM what being a man is.
But whether traveling looking for a mate--or not? I would encourage anyone to "see a bit of the world," there is so much out there to enjoy and make lasting memories.
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