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Originally Posted by jamesfrmphilly
there is a negative poison being insinuated here. first the idea that men who do not marry are some how "destructive". this is silly. then there is the idea that men who do not marry are "not mature". it is quite possible for a man to decide to not marry. we do have that right.
i am unmarried and i do not feel that i should be put down for my decision. as far as "stringing" anybody along, i have never done that. i am a very honest person. females are simply not that high on my list of priorities. i do not feel that i should be called any names because of this.
i do feel that i have a right to live my own life the way i see fit.
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There is nothing negative or poisonous here at all, it's just your perception. A man that strings a woman along by deciet is dangerous just like a woman that strings a man along by deceit. Since your an honest man and choose to be single and if you spend time with women you are very up front about your position then nothing in that post speaks to you or any man like you.
The article puts all the work on the woman. If marriage is her goal then she must do the work involved to be in the same place as the man. Lots of women have made the decision that they will force the man they desire to be on the road to marriage resulting in some of the mess we have right now.