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Originally Posted by matrixone05
I wish you all the best with blending your family. He sounds like he needs not only a strong presence (because life will definitely tell him no later and he needs to learn that) and some tough love, but a father as well. Sounds like he needs you. You are a man of morals and I must say I respect your attitude and love for both of them. Hats off to you.
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Thank you, yes he needs a man in his life that loves him enough to get in his asz when he's not doing right. I specialize in tough love with my own son and since we've been serious I've been doing the same to him. We have instructed her family to not spend alot of money for him for christmas because he has everything. His punk asz daddy has bought him a Playstation 2, XBox, Nintendo DS and now wants to buy him a PSP. All this in 2 years but he won't spend no time with him. He has been told he can buy the PSP but he has to keep it at his house for when his son visits him, this kid has everything and now EXPECTS everything and that will be stopping, from now on stuff will be earned with extra rewards throughout the journey. I love both of my boys and I only want the best for them both and my only goal is for both of them to be able to stand on their own 2 feet without me and if it means I got to be the so called "mean" 1 as my son puts it then so be it. Thank yall once again for the words, we are currently shopping for a therapist for us to see as a family which hopefully will help us.