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I was in a situation where I left and it was the biggest mistake I made. Sure, I was frustrated, sure I was mad, sure I was upset, sure I was pissed but 20/20 is hindsight. When communication breaks down, it is a mess. My advice is to try to work things out. Sometimes, you gotta leave the issues alone, just in order to deal with them in the long run. No matter how much they are pissing you off, you can do one or two things. 1. continue to be upset and aggravate the person. 2. take a timeout from the madness and try to enjoy the simplicity of a person's company without bringing up the reasons you are angry or sad. A lot of times people forget that dating (the courtship) is what makes the marriage. You have to do those same things in order to keep the relationship thriving. Many people are married and unhappy but usually its because people get bored, people get relaxed, people dont pour into each other like they originally do when they get together. One other thing, the grass on the other side may be greener but most of the times, its just because you forget to water your own grass.
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