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Originally Posted by The Dragon
Today during a discussion on a site I often visit, I was saying that I choose to date bm only and would teach my children to only date and marry Black people. For saying this I was accused of being a Black separatist, a racist, never going to find happiness in a relationship because I won't consider IR dating  etc...
I was literally attacked. But the worst part of this is that this is a site that uplifts natural Black womens beauty and all the women who came at me were Black!! I was also attacked for saying that, if I had a Black boy child I would teach him the beauty of Black women and that we are attractive and worthy of admiration!!! I was told that I should teach MY child that all women were beautifull!
Mind you, the subject was originally about Black men desiring non-Black women and placing them on a pedestal over us. They had a problem with this but also have a problem with teaching our boys at a young age to put Black womans beauty on a pedestal I told them they were contradicting themselves. What is going on with us?
How does the NA fam feel about this subject? Do you feel that dating Black only makes you/me or anyone else a racist and a separatist? |
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This is strange in and of itself. This doesn't make you a racist this just makes you smart and willing to take care and love your own. The women on that site have completely lost it. How can you on one level want to love yourself but then dont want to LOVE YOUR OWN. If you don't love your own people how can you love you?
This is a case of selfish self love, Nothing wrong with loving yourself but there is something wrong with ONLY loving yourself damning your people and bashing any one that cares for there own and wants to teach their children to do the same...............you sure that was a black site???
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