[Lediamand]

Originally Posted by The Dragon

Today during a discussion on a site I often visit, I was saying that I choose to date bm only and would teach my children to only date and marry Black people. For saying this I was accused of being a Black separatist, a racist, never going to find happiness in a relationship because I won't consider IR dating etc...

I was literally attacked. But the worst part of this is that this is a site that uplifts natural Black womens beauty and all the women who came at me were Black!! I was also attacked for saying that, if I had a Black boy child I would teach him the beauty of Black women and that we are attractive and worthy of admiration!!! I was told that I should teach MY child that all women were beautifull!

Mind you, the subject was originally about Black men desiring non-Black women and placing them on a pedestal over us. They had a problem with this but also have a problem with teaching our boys at a young age to put Black womans beauty on a pedestal I told them they were contradicting themselves. What is going on with us?

How does the NA fam feel about this subject? Do you feel that dating Black only makes you/me or anyone else a racist and a separatist?

Of course not it makes you ethnocentric or Pro-Black not racist. I mean if you were to hate other races and don't want anything to do with them that would make you a racist.