[robbboy2003]

This is interesting. I'll tell you what i think about this sista. Some of us Blacks are our worse enemies. Some have the dang notion,that,if there's another qualified Black person around,then it demeans,or somehow takes them out of the spotlight. I hope she's not one of those,but be aware some are three faced back biting snakes. I'm going to stop here sis,from giving you poor,or bad advice. Thank you Jesus! I'm in a position of strength job wise to say bluntly what i feel.

I understand what little sis says is nothing,but the truth,but it screams at a person like i . I would get girlfriend alone and have a one Black Woman to Woman chitchat. I would give her all the professional courtesy,but i'd also explain,that that dang respect door swings both ways sista! Now, do all this talking in a low,but definitely understood tone. There's another angle also sis. It's some women just rub others the wrong way. It probably wasn't,or will ever be about what,or how you say anything. If it's that,then you'll have to get another woman on here to give you some suggestions on coping. Peace and i pray things will work out!