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Originally Posted by Living Revolution
Revolutionary Greetings,
I'm not going to ask why don't women " know their Place " and all that as has been stated before .... because it is true that in War you have to be able to fill different Positions of Battle .. but I will ask to the Men and the Women ..What will it take To keep our Women as beautiful as they are inside and out ( some ) from becoming elevated at the expense of her Own Black man or Man in general nowa days and her own self worth . Meaning that Now days in alot of relationships Some women will work so hard to get " ahead " in life that they actually destroy theirselves and family in the process by not doing the very thing/s that got her a family in the first place( a very saaaaaaaaad State of affairs ) . What can we as men do better to improve our women as a Whole and not just as a Quick fix like makeup sex or jewels?
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I always think there are two kinds of women out there the Career women and the family oriented . I f a guy wants a long lasting relationship and he goes after a career woman this is going to be a challenge for him, because she would put her career first and everything else would be second.
However if they guy wants family Oriented woman ,there are many women out there who are not confused about their role in a relationship and will play their part to perfection. People have to stop trying to create forced relationships. This is our problem people are sacrificing way more than they should, then the whole relationship becomes unbalanced, and eventually crumbles.
A good relationship requires a lot of time between the two people, its a must, the same rule applies for the career man also who never have time for his woman.
Want a great career well you're gonna have to put a lot of hours away from home and family, well at thats the price for those who wish to make it to the very top.
The problem is some of these career women later on realized that they want a family but being a career woman most of your life and never have time for other things, it will be tough to have a traditional relationship that requires a whole different set of skills and mindset.
The simple question that most women must ask themselves today what do you want most? a good Career or a good Family? It's difficult to maintain both.