[Nyela]

The more I travel and learn the more I realize that many people who look like I do either do not care or are not aware of cultural and social norms. What some of our communities consider cultural norms just aren't. We give a pass to anyone that behaves unseemly because "it's what we do". Says who? Continuous irrational behavior is indicative of much broader issues.
Howerever some of those people that we see practicing the things mentioned, just need a little guidance. Many of them have no clue that some of what they engage in on a daily basis is socially unacceptable.
If mama did it, and auntie is doing it, daddy said it, and grandpa was ok with it...the neighbors don't mind...then that's what happens. No one speaks out about it so it continues.