[matrixone05]

Originally Posted by Sumyr

Good question: But it has two answers -

Engaged: If the break up is his fault, he doesn't get the ring back nor should he ask. If the break up is her fault, she should return the ring and if she doesn't, it is okay for him to ask.

Married: It isn't okay to ask for the ring back regardless of who's fault it is. If she gives it back voluntarily, by all means accept it.

I'm in total agreement with you.