[DBlack]

Please people don't hijack someone elses thread. I fully explained all of this this morning.

What goes on in the gender specific forum stays there. It's divisive to start discussions and arguments based on what the other gender is saying in their forum. I tried to let someone start this topic this morning, but it immediately began by pointing fingers in these forums. That's not cool.

If I start this now, then what about all the topics in the sistahs forum? Sistahs and Brothers have to right to privately discuss their opinions wiTHout the wrath of the community.

YOu can't have it both ways because YOU decide you don't want to respect the sanctity of the gender-specific forums. I know it's a hot topic, but PHilmoslim did not wish to make it a public forum.

FOR THE LAST TIME, RESPECT EACH OTHER'S PRIVATE FORUMS PLEASE.

let it go and move on. There are plenty of great topics to chose from.

THANK YOU.