Originally Posted by Mr Gumbo

As far as my soon to be step son I've already stepped into that role. I wouldn't of asked her to marry me without spending time with her son, her spending time with my son and all of us spending time together. If you knew me I'm very slow with feelings of MY heart so for me to get to the point of marriage I've explored every possible angle. LOL. I've told her she should take him to court and get the child support increased, she's being nice right now. If he don't wanna spend time then make him pay or ask him to sign over his rights and I will adopt him. We shall see about that.