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Originally Posted by Mr Gumbo
I'm about to get married soon and the new family will be a blended 1. We are both single parents with sons. Her son's father is a punk asz man who doesn't want anything to do with his son because he's deaf. He sends child support on time and everything but spending time he ain't interested. My son's mother died 4 years ago so it's been just me and him. This is just a background of my situation but anybody out there got any stories (good or bad), tips or any suggestions for me on blending 2 seperate families into 1?
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Although not a parent myself, I DO commend you for, "stepping up your game AND stepping up to the plate." Life has a way of knocking one on their arse..whatever this child's father has coming to him? Kharma is a bitch.
SPIRIT has said, "do not mess with one of MINE, this child is Spirit's....let Spirit do the work. Curiously, what are the ages of the two boys? The most crucial components for a blended family I think are that (1) parents are both of ONE accord and have many discussions prior to stating, "I do," for example, parenting and (2) ALL embraces a spiritual realm.
My very best to all of you!
