My 16 year old asked me this except it was worded a little differently. He said that he had been dating the current girl for about 8 months and is that considered sufficient time before having sex. My words to him were:
I told him that I didn't feel it was because he was too young...period at this time to have sex. No parent wants to entertain the thought that their 16 yr old child is wanting to have sex and that I wouldn't give him a "green light" to do so. I can't stop you but can only try to educate you and hope you'll listen. There are consequences to be dealt with and you aren't mature enough to handle them right now - focus on school, football, hanging out with your friends and have fun.
Then I told him if he tried to sneak a girl in my house, I'd break his neck!
