[Phatkatt_76]

I've always been involved in the PTA in all of my son's schools. TRUE, I've also had the types of jobs that allowed for this, but I would't have it any other way.

When you have black children, black males especially, its important for parents to make their presence known. Not only to be informed about what going on in the school, but to support ur child's education. Sitting in those meetings I've only seen a few blacks among several white parents. However the presence of the black families was extremely powerful.

Sadly, I found that the students with active parents recieved better treatment from the school officials. Almost like saying if the parents care...then we'll care as well. Teachers pay close attention to their students and can spot a "neglected" child from a mile away. They seem to focus on those who they believe have a better chance for a positive future. By doing this, they throw ther rest to the wayside and don't offer them as much help or attention.Of course , I don't agree with this atitude towards our children, but it's a fact, I've seen it happen with my own eyes.

Personally, I don't think hectic jobs/careers is the main issue here. I think parents today are more focused on themselves. They put too many things before their own children, and as a result their kids have to suffer.