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Phatkatt_76 · September 12th, 2007, 07:42 PM

When we have trust issues with our mates it comes from an area of insecurity. I don't care if your man was the biggest "dawg" of all dogs....if he was the pitbull of all dawgs..YOU chose to be with the man so do that.

I hate to hear a lot of sistas say..."well, if I'm insecure, than he made me that way". SORRY no sympathy here. That's child's play. There comes a time in all of our lives that we have to except what we ask for.

Tons of us do whatever it takes to be with the ones we love. Sometimes we end up fighting to be with the wrong person. Trust is major in relationships. It goes beyond an issue of sex. He!! if I can't trust you with women , than I can't trust you with ANYTHING. So why be with you ?!?!?

The issue of trust with take over your relationship. First you check his two-way. Then your turning into an amatuer detective tryin' to follow the brrutha errwhere he goes. NO thanks !! Too much work. If ya have to do all that and ur that insecure about yourself....Then ya need to let him go !!

September 12th, 2007, 07:42 PM	#13 (permalink)
Phatkatt_76 Afro Resident Junior Speaker Phatkatt_76 is offline Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 449 Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 15 Credits: 2,103	Trust issues When we have trust issues with our mates it comes from an area of insecurity. I don't care if your man was the biggest "dawg" of all dogs....if he was the pitbull of all dawgs..YOU chose to be with the man so do that. I hate to hear a lot of sistas say..."well, if I'm insecure, than he made me that way". SORRY no sympathy here. That's child's play. There comes a time in all of our lives that we have to except what we ask for. Tons of us do whatever it takes to be with the ones we love. Sometimes we end up fighting to be with the wrong person. Trust is major in relationships. It goes beyond an issue of sex. He!! if I can't trust you with women , than I can't trust you with ANYTHING. So why be with you ?!?!? The issue of trust with take over your relationship. First you check his two-way. Then your turning into an amatuer detective tryin' to follow the brrutha errwhere he goes. NO thanks !! Too much work. If ya have to do all that and ur that insecure about yourself....Then ya need to let him go !! __________________ *KNOWLEDGE WITHOUT EXPERIENCE IS JUST PLAIN OLD INFORMATION*