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No doubt there are Black women who look down on Black men, for a variety of reasons. I have run into it before and guess what? I don't give a damn. If a female has a negative way of thinking in regards to me then that only tells me she isn't worth my time or trouble and I move on. It's that simple. It also helps if you already have a high opinion of yourself, that way it's so much easier to move past anyone who thinks lower of you than you think of yourself. I'm not arrogant or anything but I do hold myself in the highest regard and I do have a f**k you attitude for anyone who attempts to make me feel bad about myself. You must do the same.
And keep in mind that Black women have the same issue you claim to have. There are Black men out there who look down on Black women because they all supposedly have issues or are uneducated or they aren't supposed to be as beautiful as white women and a number of other reasons. That's something our women have had to deal with for awhile now. You are only experiencing what they experience from the media and some of us as men all the time. And just maybe these women you run into have built up this attitude based on what they themselves have had to deal with. Not saying it's right but you have to think about things like that.
But the bottomline is that you have not met every Black woman, and I know many personally who are the opposite of what you describe. Fact is if you have already made up your mind about crossing over then, as has been echoed in this thread, do you. Be our guest. If Black women are labeling you not worthy maybe there is some white chick out there who will gladly love you as the Black king you might be. There isn't much more that can be said.
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